Diary of a Pakistani girl mesmerised by India experience


Peace between India and Pakistan? Politico-mediatic gestures indicate that it’s like asking for the moon. One cannot reckon the reality of people in both the countries without a firsthand interaction. Selection for a conference in India gave me a chance to experience the !ncredible India with all my wits and senses. This memorable excursion broke many stereotypes and brought me to a verge of thinking that if compared with the rest of the world, we are very recognizably similar, equally welcoming and extremely loving.

Vividly, ‪
‎peace‬ and ‪‎humanity‬ is the priority on both sides of the border. I earned so much love in India that I forgot that I wasn’t in Pakistan. I already have Arpita, Zainab and Nivetha as my sisters from India, and now getting awesome friends like Vivek, Karamjit, Jaskiran, Sir Ajat and Devika; and supportive buddies like Prema, Sahil and Karun, makes me feel that India is my second home. The friendliness down the road with Nishan bhai and overwhelmed hospitality of the Dhaba owners for their Pakistani guests was also memorable.

Being in the country of my ancestors was a mesmerizing experience and a dream come true. Though 9 days could not satiate my wanderlust, but what founded the lasting memories of the ‪#‎IndiaDiaries‬ was the rowdy road trip to adorable ‪#Agra‬’s talismanic Taj, alluring ‪‎Ajmer Sharif‬; classy ‪‎Chandigarh‬ with pompous Punjab Kala Bhawan, sassy Sector 17, picturesque Panjab University, capacious, captivating and cordial Carmel Convent, jaunty Judicial Academy, rocking Rock Garden; dandy ‪#‎Delhi‬ with idyllic India Gate, “mast” Metro, delicious Delhi 6, quaint Qutab Minar, romantic ‪Red Fort‬, multifaceted markets; amazing Amritsar with gorgeous Golden Temple, haughty Haveli and omnipresent, somber stations with punctilious Police.

There is still too much to see, and I hope to revisit the country to recreate the amalgam of laughter, anger, fear, pleasure, pain, joy, adventure, insomnia and all the inexplicable emotions that I lived in less than a fortnight.

– Namra Nasir, ‪‎Lahore‬, Pakistan

(Namra has recently joined Aaghaz-e-Dosti as Coordinator for Lahore Chapter)

Aaghaz-e-Dosti, an Indo-Pak Friendship, aims to counter mutual hatred and suspicion to create unwavering bonds of peace and friendship. It seeks to become the medium to discover and recognise the misrepresented reality on the other side of the border.

Aaghaz-e-Dosti is an initiative of India-based Mission Bhartiyam and Pakistan-based The Catalyst – Tc. Both are youth-based organizations. There are also collaborating organisations for individual events

Know more about Aaghaz-e-Dosti and Namra Nasir here.